Shallow

I was always been asked by many of my relatives and friends before,

"bila nak kawin nih?"

Don’t they know that jodoh, ajal & maut semua di tangan ALLAH?
And don’t they have any sensitivity towards the person they asked?
How the person would feel by such questions?

Been there, done that.
People have stop asking me now.

I have a friend. Senior by 4-5 years.
She is now being thrown with that dreadful question.
Pity her!

I know it’s not an easy situation for a person to handle.
And some of our guy friends (yang ala-ala mangkuk jantan kabaret) bole ckp,

"Ala..dah perangai dia macam tuh, lelaki mana yang tahan??"

Fuck off la!
Can you guys at least pray for her?
Can you guys put the statement more nicely? Instead blame on her, just say that maybe jodoh dia belum sampai?

Don’t think because you guys are married now you will forever be married.
Tolong ingat, kebahagian tuh datang dari doa-doa orang sekeliling jugak.

You are not living in your own world.

Shallow!